being twenty sumthin.. .. ..^^..

"Being Twenty-Something… … … "

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along
with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about
yourself that you didn’t know and may not like. You start feeling
insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe,  those friends that you thought you were so close to aren’t exactly the
greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost
touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don’t recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren’t really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job… and it is not even close to what you thought you
would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that
you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and
find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize
that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding
things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn’t.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next,secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared
and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on
to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting
further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you
are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can’t meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know
better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren’t a bad person.

Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go
through the same emotions and questions over and over, and
talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem
to make a decision.

You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself… ..and while winning the race would be great, right now you’d just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.
We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

To my frenzz of twenties..^^..maybe diz will help you if read diz to make u feel like u aren’t alone in their state of confusion… … …

"Being Twenty-Something… … … " 

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